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Parenting Column/Examiner.com – Week in review July 10, 2009

My parenting column is available on the LA edition of Examiner.com, the premier online brand for local information and events.

Examiner.com is a fresh, innovative online local news and information source. Here are links to my articles from this week. I’d love to see your comments—especially any requests to cover whatever topic that matters most to you!

Thank you for taking the time to check these out:

 

A good vocabulary protects women against Alzheimer’s July 9, 2009

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Women writers, journalists and wordsmiths rejoice!

Yesterday, Crystal Phend published findings on MegPage Today proving sophisticated language skills early in adulthood may protect against the symptoms of Alzheimer’s disease — even when its characteristic brain lesions are present later on.

Women free of memory problems until death showed significantly higher command of the language in their late teens and early 20s than those who developed clinical Alzheimer’s, according to Juan C. Troncoso, MD, of Johns Hopkins University, and colleagues.

The importance of these skills — measured by “idea density” in an essay from early adulthood — held for women with intact cognition, regardless of whether a brain autopsy showed the hallmark plaques and tangles of Alzheimer’s, Dr. Troncoso’s group reported online in Neurology.

The findings add to the evidence that so-called “cognitive reserve” mitigates the effects of neurological disease, commented Robert Stern, PhD, of Boston University, who was not involved in the study.

Language abilities — like other measures of this reserve used in prior studies, such as years of education — appear to be surrogate markers for “bigger and better brains,” with more connections between neurons, he said.

Rather than decreasing the likelihood that a person will develop Alzheimer’s, it apparently staves off some clinical symptoms of the underlying disease, such as memory loss, Dr. Stern added.

Exercising the mind early in life may help build a protective cognitive reserve, although studies like this cannot prove it’s effective, commented Samuel Gandy, MD, of Mount Sinai Alzheimer’s Disease Research Center in New York.

“The notion of recommending language acquisition as a kind of mental exercise that might lower one’s risk for Alzheimer’s disease follows logically,” he observed.

And even if it doesn’t help in the end, language skill certainly can’t hurt, he said.

Alzheimer’s disease has puzzled researchers because the same degree of damage to the brain causes severe symptoms in some people, but not in others, Dr. Troncoso’s group noted.

To determine what factors earlier in life might produce these differences, the researchers looked at a particularly Alzheimer’s-vulnerable area of the hippocampus in brain autopsies of 38 Roman Catholic nuns.

These women, all born before 1917, had been part of the larger Nun Study, an ongoing longitudinal study that originally involved 678 American members of the School Sisters of Notre Dame.

Autopsies showed that women with Alzheimer’s disease in this cohort had significant atrophy of neuronal cell bodies, nuclei, and nucleoli compared with controls who had no symptoms or brain lesions.

Women with asymptomatic Alzheimer’s disease — who showed no cognitive impairment before death but showed Alzheimer’s disease-type brain lesions on autopsy — had markedly larger compartments of neurons compared with all the other groups of women.

Compared with women who had mild cognitive impairment, those with asymptomatic Alzheimer’s disease had:

  • 44.9% larger cell bodies (P<0.05).
  • 59.7% larger nuclei (P<0.01).
  • 80.2% larger nucleoli, which indicate transcription and metabolic activities in neurons (P<0.01).

Compared with controls, asymptomatic Alzheimer’s was associated with:

  • 30.9% larger neuronal cell bodies (P<0.05).
  • 36.4% larger nuclei (P<0.01).
  • 41.9% larger nucleoli (P<0.05).

These changes may indicate that the neurons are repairing themselves or growing and making new connections to compensate for damage, the researchers said.

Across these groups, there were no differences in age at death, education level, or time from last cognitive evaluation to death that could explain the results. However, language ability earlier in life did appear to correlate with clinical outcomes.

The researchers analyzed essays that 14 of the women had written as they entered the convent five or six decades earlier. Women without old-age cognitive impairments — including two with asymptomatic Alzheimer’s disease and six controls — had expressed a significantly higher number of ideas for every 10 words in the essay than did the one patient with mild cognitive impairment and the five with Alzheimer’s disease (average score 6.9 versus 5.0).But the complexity of grammar in the essays did not differ by cognitive ability late in life.

The researchers called this a fascinating observation but cautioned about the small sample size. Dr. Gandy agreed that the study could not get at the mechanism behind the association. He noted, though, that language skills are complex and exercise sensory, cognitive, and motor areas of the brain at the same time.

 

WIN! Secrets of the Budgeting Mom contest July 7, 2009

When it comes to managing household finances, women reign supreme. More and more women are being put in a position to manage and influence family financial decisions. In fact, upwards of 95% of all women either manage the household finances or share in the financial decision making.

When it comes to budgeting and managing money, women know a thing or two. That’s why You Need a Budget wants to hear from you. What are your strategies for running a tight ship? What methods have you employed to cut costs and increase family savings?

Enter the Secrets of the Budgeting Mom contest, sponsored by You Need A Budget (YNAB), where we are looking to reward women who are taking charge of their family’s finances and being creative in the process.

Prizes

1 Grand Prize: A trip for two to the luxurious spa of the Four Seasons, Dallas at Las Colinas, for three days of rest and relaxation!

 A panel of judges will select the ten best submitted budgeting Secrets, Strategies, Stories, and Tactics, and then America will vote to determine the grand prize winner! The grand prize winner will receive:

  • Airfare and three nights’ accommodation for two (valued at $2200.00)
  • $700.00 resort amenity credit to be used for spa services, meals, and all of the other amazing experiences offered at The Four Seasons, Dallas, TX at Las Colinas
  • The knowledge that you can take a vacation like this without worrying how you’re going to pay for it!
  • One copy of YNAB Pro, the bestselling family budgeting software.
  • One copy of Jesse Mecham’s The YNAB Way

1 First Prize: The Ultimate Personal Finance Gift Package.

One lucky person will win the random drawing for this ultimate personal finance gift package, which includes:

  • A one-hour phone-based financial consultation with “Women and Money” Guru Sue Fenimore, CFP® of the Financial Consulate, Inc.
  • One copy of YNAB Pro, the bestselling family budgeting software
  • One copy of Jesse Mecham’s The YNAB Way
  • Jean Chatzky’s The Difference: How Anyone Can Prosper in Even the Toughest Times
  • Sharon Epperson’s The Big Payoff: 8 Steps Couples Can Take to Make the Most of Their Money–and Live Richly Ever After
  • Jane Bryant Quinn’s Smart and Simple Financial Strategies for Busy People
  • Janet Bodnar’s Everything You Need to Know to Achieve a Lifetime of Financial Security
  • Suze Orman’s Women & Money
  • Kristin Delfau’s Turbo-Mom’s Guide to Saving Money Without Wasting Time
  • Kimberly Lankford’s Rescue Your Financial Life: 11 Things You Can Do Now to Get Back on Track

10 Second Prizes: The YNAB Gift Package.

Ten lucky people will win the random drawing for the YNAB Gift Package, which includes:

  • One copy of YNAB Pro, the bestselling family budgeting software
  • One copy of Jesse Mecham’s The YNAB Way

Enter the Secrets of the Budgeting Mom contest

 

Examiner Parenting Column – Week in Review July 6, 2009

My newest parenting column is now available on the LA edition of Examiner.com, the premier online brand for local information and events.

Examiner.com is a fresh, innovative online local news and information source. Here are links to my articles from this week. I’d love to see your comments—especially any requests to cover whatever topic that matters most to you! Thank you for taking the time to check these out:

 

Put a little green in your red, white and blue celebration July 1, 2009

This Fourth of July weekend, Americans will light up more than 60 million barbecues and will roast about 150 million hot dogs and 890 million pounds of chicken and red meat. A yummy prospect for most picnickers, but consider that, according to Jason Green, coordinator for St. Petersburg College’s Office for Sustainability, “A typical party of 30 guests can create 80 pounds of waste.”

Not only is paper waste an environmental concern, but as Green reports, “It’s estimated that Americans using their grills will create the same amount of carbon dioxide as if 2,300 acres of forest were burnt.”

Think it ends with paper waste and CO2 emmissions? Think again. Fireworks contain potassium perchlorate, which gets into the soil, air and water and causes damage to the thyroid gland. Other ingredients include such heavy metals as barium and copper, which are toxic.

Party Like an Independent American, AND Minimize Damage to the Environment!

What are the best ways to celebrate the holiday season in an environmentally friendly way? Here are some ideas:

  • For July 4 parties, use real plates, silverware and cloth napkins and stay away from paper napkins, disposable paper plates and plastic utensils. If you must use disposable plates, buy plates that are biodegradable. Did you know that  disposable plates are now available that are made from corn, potato and sugar-cane pulp?
  • Throw a potluck party to share resources and carpool.
  • Prepare meals and desserts with locally-grown organic ingredients and free-range, grass-fed meats and poultry. (Bonus: they’re much more delicious!)
  • Balance your meat dishes with more sustainable vegetable-based items. Potato salad, anyone?
  • Provide recycling bins for glass bottles, cans and plastic — A must-do!
  • When BBQ-ing, use natural gas grills — they pollute less than charcoal grills. To make matters worse, over-charring meat produces toxic chemicals in the food itself.
  • Don’t shoot off polluting fireworks at home; instead, go to one of the city- or county-sponsored events.
  • Make your own natural insect repellent! Frequently reapply basic essential oils like lavender, rosemary and cedar wood. These oils can trick insects into thinking you’re a plant.
  • If you must use a DEET-based insect repellent, choose products with less than 20% DEET. Never apply over cuts or wounds; never apply on infants or if you are taking any medications; don’t spray in enclosed areas; and wash skin with soap and water after use.
  • Use environmentally-friendly cleaning products and cloths or micro fiber rags to clean up after the party.

Learn more about the sustainable | SPC initiative.
Make your own natural insect repellent!

 

Examiner Parenting Column – Week in Review June 29, 2009

My newest parenting column is now available on the LA edition of Examiner.com, the premier online brand for local information and events. Examiner.com is a fresh, innovative online local news and information source.

Here are links to my articles from this week. I’d love to see your comments—especially any requests to cover whatever topic that matters most to you! Thank you for taking the time to check these out:

 

Summer Challenge! Tasting Ice Cream Like A Connoisseur June 28, 2009

Ice cream, sorbet, frozen custard, frozen yogurt, gelato… these are the culinary treasures of summer. Lucky for us, Los Angeles boasts some of the finest purveyors of frosty delights in the country. Now that summer is upon us, I propose a season-long exploration for the entire family, in the good names of gustatory pleasure and the spirit of adventure!

I’ve compiled an alphabetical list of LA’s most highly recommended ice cream parlors; There are enough tempting destinations listed to visit one frozen-delight outlet per week until Labor Day, with room for visit to a stumbled-upon treasure (comment back if you find an ice cream parlor the rest of us need to visit!) or to make a second visit to a favorite place to sample another flavor!
 
Al Gelato 806 S Robertson Blvd. Los Angeles, CA 90035. 310-659-8069
Charlie Temmel Ice Cream 1313 Ocean Front Walk, Venice, CA 90291.  310-664-9564
Mashti Malone’s Ice Cream 1525 North La Brea Ave. Los Angeles, CA 90028.  866-767-3423
Milk 7290 Beverly Blvd. Los Angeles, CA 90036. 323-939-6455
Pazzo Gelato 3827 Sunset Blvd. Los Angeles, CA 90026. 323-662-1410
Scoops 712 N Heliotrope Dr. Los Angeles, CA 90029. 323-906-2649
Silky Smooth Ultra Creamery Beverly Center Mall-7th Floor 8500 Beverly Blvd. Store 752, Los Angeles, CA 90048. 310-659-9992
 
Taking a cue from wine connoisseurs, equip yourself and your kids with a notebook to record impressions. On Labor Day weekend, celebrate your newly refined palate with a trip back for what is—in your esteemed opinion—the “very bestest” frozen treat in Los Angeles.
 
Just like tasting wine, paying special attention to your ice cream can be an adventure that will deepen your appreciation for both the treat and the various methods by which it is made.
 
Here are some fun tips for tasting like a true connoisseur
 
Begin with your basic senses. Keep in mind that you can smell thousands of unique scents, but your taste perception is limited to salty, sweet, sour and bitter. It is the combination of smell and taste that allows you to discern flavor.
 
One a fresh page in your notebook, enter the name of the ice cream shop, the date, and the flavor you chose. Then, eat! Be sure to make additional notes in your book using the following as a guide:
 
Look: What color is it? Did you choose a treat with bits of fruit, nuts, chocolate chips? Can you see them? Does your treat have a smooth, creamy texture, is it soft or firm, light or heavy? Is it melting quickly, or holding its shape?
 
Taste: Take a bite, and allow it to slowly melt on your tongue. Depending on which flavor you chose, you might detect the taste of berries, chocolate, vanilla, spices, or citrus. Sweet tastes and salty tastes are mostly tasted at the tip of the tongue. Bitter tastes are mostly sensed towards the back and rear sides of the tongue, and sour tastes (like citrus) are mostly tasted at the sides of the tongue, at the middle and towards the front.
 
Is it melting quickly, or slowly? What flavors did you notice first? Did any additional flavors appear as the ice cream melted on your tongue? How sweet is it? How does the texture feel? Does it taste better eaten from a spoon, or licked directly? (I’m told there really is a difference.) Does the flavor persist long after each bite, or does it disappear? Close your eyes and search your imagination: what does the taste make you think of?
 
Explore: What is the funniest flavor the shop offers? What is the weirdest? (Scoops features flavors such as (Fois gras and Sweet cream, Earl Grey Ginger, and Riesling Cherry!) How was it made? (Does the shop use an old family recipe? What kids of equipment are used to prepare the ice cream? How long does it take? How often do they make it?)
 
Sure it tastes good, but is it good for me? Some shops will offer information such as calories, or fat content per serving. Silky Smooth Ultra Creamery uses excess butterfat, yet is 90% fat free. (How do they do this?) Be sure to add notes about nutrition in your ice cream notebook, if it happens to matter to you. With dessert, often one is better off not knowing.
 
Lastly, give your ice cream a final rating overall: perhaps grade it A, B, C or D, or give it a ranking from 1-10. When you find one you like, don’t keep it a secret. Comment below and spread the good word!
 

Win a Lux Gift from LA Boxing!! June 26, 2009

For new mothers, there is no greater joy than welcoming home your newborn baby. However, along with that bundle of joy came another not-so-wonderful bundle in the form of “baby weight”—those extra pounds packed on by all that extra eating you did during gestation for the healthy growth of your infant.

Now that  Baby (and bathing suit season) are finally here, it’s time to wave bye-bye to post-pregnancy pounds! (My youngest is two, and I’m still trying to shake the final eight.)

There is a light at the end of the tunnel!

For all those looking to slim down, boxing is a fun and effective way to help moms get rid of their post-pregnancy weight. Classes are guaranteed to burn up to 800-1000 calories per hour! Boxing workouts are also notable favorites among celebrities such as Victoria’s Secret models Adriana Lima (who just announced her pregnancy!) and Marisa Miller, The Office funny girl Jenna Fisher and six-pack wielding Matthew McConaughey and Mark Walberg

LA Boxing, the nation’s leading boxing, kickboxing and MMA organization, is saluting new and veteran moms with a very special gift for one lucky Motherhood, Marriage & Other Wild Rides reader, featuring:

  • LA Boxing t-shirt
  • A 30-day trial membership certificate for the location of your choice
  • A pair of lux pink boxing gloves   

Just comment below to enter! One winner will be selected randomly on Monday, July 13! If you are not a mom, enter to win this as a baby shower gift, or give it to your mom, sister, BFF, partner or wife. With over 120 LA Boxing clubs  nationwide, there is certain to be one in her neighborhood.

While you wait for the announcement of our winner, try this simple at-home workout to help quickly shed pounds, courtesy of the fitness gurus at LA Boxing:  
 
Begin with 3 minute rounds concentrating on the following breakdown with 30 seconds break in between rounds:
 
1. Shadow box for the first minute: Keep hands always up (do all combinations with hooks, uppercuts, and straight punches)
 
2. Power punches second minute (punching hard every punch)
 
3.  Shadow box the third minute
 
Do as many rounds as you can, starting out with five to six rounds. As your stamina increases, add one knee after every combination using the opposite side knee of your last punch. Then, if you feel strong and are not over-extending yourself, you can add 10 squat jumps (jumping as high as you can in the air, then squatting as low as you can) during your break time.

Simply comment to win! One lucky mama will be contacted by email on Monday, July 13, 2009.
Special note: If you are new to motherhood, you are likely so tired you can barely think about getting to the gym, and that’s perfectly natural—and recommended! After Baby arrives, every mom’s best advice is to rest up for at least six weeks, or until your doctor gives you the greenlight to get back into a fitness routine.
 

Top 10 Foods to Help Little Ones Sleep Better June 22, 2009

We’ve  certainly had our issues with bedtime. Both our boys require strategic, point-by-point operations before they will agree to close their eyes for the night. We’ve tried everything (and I do mean everything) to put them to sleep, including altering their dinner options to encourage a restful sleep.

Regardless of the book or manuals you read, what works and doesn’t work in parenting is often learned through trial and error. As far as the foods we’ve  been choosing before bedtime, apparently we’ve been following the wrong tack.

While many stand by a high-protein pre-bedtime routine, (citing the side benefits of turkey because it contains sleep-inducing tryptophan), researchers have nixed this connection. It turns out turkey, like most foods, just doesn’t contain enough tryptophan to put you to sleep, explains Elizabeth Somer, R.D., author of The Food & Mood Cookbook: Recipes for Eating Well and Feeling Your Best

This comes as a surprise to me. As a former macrobiotic, I thought I knew a thing or two about the food-mood connection. Instead, Somer recommends we choose light but high-carbohydrate snacks in order to boost levels of serotonin (the brain’s sleep chemical) without overloading  the digestive system. Of course, it never hurts to wash them down with something warm and soothing, such as a cup of herbal tea (chamomile or lemon balm) or warm milk. Perhaps I’ll try incorporating a little tea-party ritual with the boys before bedtime.

The Top 10 Foods to Promote Sleep
Try one of these yummy foods about an hour before bedtime. I’ll keep my fingers crossed that your little one (and you!) get a good night’s rest tonight!

  • A 4-ounce baked potato topped with salsa
  • Half of a whole-wheat English muffin or raisin bagel drizzled with honey
  • 1 slice whole or multi-grain bread smeared with almond or cashew butter
  • Half a cup of pasta topped with marinara sauce
  • 2 cups air-popped popcorn
  • Fresh strawberries dunked in a little fat-free chocolate syrup
  • A handful of oyster crackers and one piece of fruit
  • A small slice of angel food cake topped with berries
  • A frozen whole-wheat waffle, toasted, with maple syrup
  • Half a cup of pretzels   
 

Parenting Examiner Column – Week in Review June 20, 2009

My newest parenting column is now available on the LA edition of Examiner.com, the premier online brand for local information and events. Examiner.com is a fresh, innovative online local news and information source. Powered by a diverse group of contributors from around the country, Examiners are “credible, passionate, knowledgeable people who talk about their topics and share their knowledge in a fun, useful non-pompous way.” (Eesh, alert me if this comes off as pompous!)

Michelle Trela, Family & Parenting Channel Manager for Examiner.com, generously commented: “You hit the mark on pretty much everything I look for: localization, hyperlinks, photos (and you even used a slide show! Very few new Examiner are brave enough to try one, so bravo, it came out great!), clean writing (nice sense of humor, too!), a good headline.  Keep up the great work!  This is really top notch work; I look forward to seeing what else you have to write.”

Here are links to my articles from this week. I’d love to see your comments—especially any requests to cover whatever topic that matters most to you! Thank you for taking the time to check these out: