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Holiday tension? Try Feng Shui for your family Thanksgiving Dinner November 16, 2009

Click here to find out more!Using Feng Shui can help ensure a warm, happy and positive atmosphere for you and your guests. For many people, the holidays bring with them seemingly perpetual family tension. The idea that Feng Shui might offer some peace and happiness should come as a huge relief! Not sure Feng Shui is for real? Read these simple tips from Practitioner Dr. Andie Pearson, DMD–they are excellent organizational and decorating tips, and if they do stimulate a positive environment, all the better. What do you have to lose?

  • Clean and Clear: No matter what the occasion, the first step in Feng Shui is clearing clutter and cleaning the area.
  • Analyze: After you have cleared, cleaned and organized the area where you will be entertaining, you need to decided on themes, purpose, how many people will be invited, who will be there, and what activities and foods will you have. This should help you with the rest of your planning.
  • Color It Warm: Plan the decorations with warm relaxing colors. Use goldenrod, earthy greens, tans, amber, deep rich reds or maroons etc. You want a color scheme that will be both relaxing and welcoming. Fall and Thanksgiving colors lend themselves to this very well.
  • Traffic Flow – Create a good flow of traffic throughout. Ask yourself – Are you having an actual sit-down event , buffet or cocktails with appetizers ?
    • If you are having a formal dinner, have that room separate from the rest of the party, allowing the rest of the party area to be designated as the place for social gathering.
    • For a buffet-style Thanksgiving, have an area for the food and a section for drinks. You will also need to have seating scattered about in organized fashion that doesn’t block flow of traffic.
    • A Thanksgiving party that is just snacks, appetizers and cocktails has a bit of free flow. You can arrange several areas for food and drinks scattered through out the room so that people can stroll from place to place and socialize.
  • Minimalist – Decorations should be pleasing to the eye, but kept to a minimum. Overly large or overwhelming items or too much clutter can create an environment of anxiety. (From an eco-conscious standpoint, less is always more, anyway. Try to find new uses for existing items in your home, or shop second-hand, and give old finds a breath of new life.) The stimulation of clutter is too much and makes it hard to relax into the party. Flower arrangements on the table or through out the room should be conservative and moderate to short. Anything big or tall will not allow for conversion across the table. Because people will be visiting and talking, music would be very nice, but needs to be low and soft so that it doesn’t compete with everyone there.
If you stick to the basics of Feng Shui, your party will be a success. So remember, clear and clean, plan in detail, go low and conservative on decorations, and allow for good social flow patterns through out the party area.
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2 Responses to “Holiday tension? Try Feng Shui for your family Thanksgiving Dinner”

  1. Hello , it’s Thanksgiving Day! I’m enjoying my extra day off, and I am planning to make something fun that will probably involve a bike ride and seeing something new in Shasta Lake I haven’t seen yet.
    You write new post at Thanksgiving?

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